How To Tell If A Guy Likes You
So, you have a crush on someone huh? Or maybe your Spidey senses are tingling and you feel like this guy likes you but you’re still unsure. Don’t worry, I got you cover. Some of these signs you might have seen in your favorite romcom movie and some of these signs you haven’t because this is some real stuff we are dealing here and we tend to do this to get our crushes attention. So, with that in mind here are 15 signs on how to tell if a guy likes you.
1. He makes you laugh
A good way to a girl’s heart is through laughter. If he can make you smile, laugh, and be happy at the same time, you know he’s trying to charm you through his humor. A lot of people like to be happy and be laughing. It lightens up the mood and makes a person more attractive. If he is constantly bringing you laughter to your life, you know he is trying his very best to woo you.
2. Watch his body language
This is one of those things that will betray him. Even if he likes you but can’t come out and confess it, his body language will reveal how he feels about you deep down inside. If you suspect that a guy likes you, then pay attention to his body when he is with you. Body language has been proven scientifically to communicate attraction. Pay attention to how is body is positioned. Does he lean in towards you when he talks? Are his feet pointing towards you? Does he mirror you? These are all positive signs that he is interested in you.
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3. He introduces you to his friends
If he didn’t like you, he wouldn’t invite you to places or hang out with his friends. But if he does, he has a huge crush on you and want to see if you get along with them. The reason for doing this is so you guys can both create memorable experiences together and if you both are into parties, you know for sure he’ll ask you to come along on the next one.
4. Watch his friends closely
Some guys could spend a lot of time together talking about girls and therefore you can be sure that if he likes you, his friends might know. Whenever you are close to him and his friends, pay attention to what his friends are doing. They may excuse themselves just to give you some alone time or just start making subtle jokes and making fun of him. Watch if his friends smile when you approach the group or if they start teasing him afterwards. If they do, then it’s a good indicator that he likes you.
5. He makes eye contact
This is another telltale sign that he likes you. If a man likes you, he will maintain and lock eye contact with you when you are talking. His eyes brows maybe lifted and his eyes will be dilated. Here’s something interesting, if you catch him staring at your mouth, he maybe romantically into you or you just have something in your teeth. So, pay attention to his eyes and see if they are on you or always wondering around.
6. He has endless questions for you
If a guy has questions after questions, then that’s a strong indicator that he likes you. He wants to know everything about you from how you were as a kid to what kind of weird talents you have. One major giveaway question he can ask is “do you have a boyfriend?” If he is not interested in you, he will definitely not care and won’t ask you that question. In addition, he wants to keep the conversation going with you because he doesn’t want to lose you. At the same time, if he finds out that you have similar interest as him, he will dive deeper into it and share some of his experiences with you as well. That’s one of the signs to tell if a guy likes you.
7. He gets nervous
The reality is that if you get nervous, he’s probably nervous as well. If he likes you, he may act nervous. However, nervousness can be portrayed differently by different people; some can talk super-fast while others lack words to say. Also observe if his hands are shaking or if he’s stuttering. Before writing him off as not interested, just realize that whatever he is doing right now are symptoms of nervousness.
8. He starts to share similar interest as you
In order to get your attention, he can adopt the things you like and do the things you do. And the best way to do that is to get to know your interests and hobbies. If you notice all of a sudden, he starts to watch your favorite tv show or listen to your favorite songs, then you know that he’s doing that so he can later use it in a conversation with you. And the best way of course to connect with you is through common interest.
9. He spends a lot of time with you
Most guys like their space and want to spend the time with their friends, play their games, or watch their sports. If you notice that he’s giving up his friends just to spend time with you, then he must be attracted to you. Next time you can test it out to see if it’s true. Call him for a walk when you think there’s a football or basketball game he likes to watch and if he’s willing to ditch the game to hang out with you, then you can be sure he likes you.
10. He treats you differently
When a guy likes you, he will treat you differently. He may also be acting differently towards you especially in a group setting. If he starts getting protective or just supporting you overall, then there’s a huge change that he likes you. Another thing to check is how he behaves with other girls. Do you see him flirty with other girls or do you see the same support and attention he gives them? If not, then he is most likely only interested in you.
11. He gives you gifts
It’s not about the size or value of the gift that matters, it’s about how thoughtful the gift is. If there was this one time you told him you like a particular pen at the store and a few days later he surprises you with that pen, then you could probably assume that he’s very thoughtful and kind. But of course, only towards you because he likes you.
12. He compliments you often
A guy who is interested in you will at all cost try to compliment you and make you feel special and warm. If you changed anything about your hair style or clothing, he will notice it and let you know that you wear it the best. If he wasn’t interested in you, he won’t try to overload you with compliment and pay attention to you, overall. And if he gives you compliments about your inner beauty, then you know for sure he’s not just looking for a fling.
13. He follows you and chats with you on social media
If you notice that he’s always there on social media, whether it’s texting you, liking your post, or commenting on your photos, then it’s a good indicator that he like you. Connecting with someone on social media is easy and stress free. This is probably a prefer method for shy guys to open up to you. But at the same time if a guy is persistent and tries to communicate with you even when he’s not there in person, then he’s really giving up some of his time for you so he can have a relationship with you in the future.
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14. He smiles a lot with you
Smiling is a good use to attract people to like you. He does it a lot around you so he can hope to attract you towards him. So next time you are with him, notice how often he smiles. Also get a closer look at his smile, is it genuine? Does his face light up overall? Do his cheeks go up and his eyes crease? You’ll notice that it’ll be a genuine smile if these signs are present.
15. He doesn’t use his phone around you
Nowadays we feel like we are married to our phones. It’s with us where ever we go and when we need it, it’s there. But notice when you guys are hanging out, he rarely uses his phone. This means he enjoys spending quality time with you and is actively paying attention to you. Using the phone while you are talking is disrespectful to begin with, so he understands that, and wants to respect you. If you find a guy that can give you that much attention, then he’s definitely a keeper.
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Overall, a lot of guys will try their best to get the girl they want and some of them fail in the process because the girl isn’t reciprocating. So, girls, if you actually like the guy, then send some signals back to give him the confidence to ask you out. Although some guys are stubborn and like to take things slow, don’t just rule him out, yet. Give him some time and let him do his thing. That is if you think he is worth the wait. So there you have it 15 signs on how to tell if a guy likes you.