10 Signs She Wants To Be Your Girlfriend

10 Signs She Wants To Be Your Girlfriend

Let me guess, you’re still single. It’s okay. I’m still here with you. But let’s take a moment to recognize these people who have left me for their partner…. (sniff sniff. I’m not crying) But for reals though good job to those who actually went out to confess. I know it wasn’t easy, but good job! So now, you’re in this sticky situation and you don’t know how sure she is to you. If that’s the case, don’t worry, I gotchu. Let’s look at these 10 signs she wants to be your girlfriend.

1. She tells you she’s not interested in other people

You know it’s real when she tells you she doesn’t like to hang out with “them,” but likes hanging out with you. Doesn’t that just give you the warm fuzzy feeling on the inside? Or that she down plays the other guys and tells you that she isn’t interested in them. She wants to make sure you get the hint that she only wants you. But if you don’t see the hint, then I’m not sure what to say. It’s super obvious. Unless this is you and this is the guy she tells you not to worry about. haha

2. She’s thoughtful towards you

In general, most of the people who are female that I know of are pretty sweet and thoughtful but of course this is from their partner’s perspective. If she listens to you and remembers the details of it, then that’s a plus. If she’s caring and attentive towards you, that’s a bonus. If you’re too busy and haven’t eaten all day and she miraculously show up with heart-warming food, then you should probably wife her up. I’m just saying. These qualities are hard to find nowadays.

3. She shares everything with you

This includes clothing and food because it’s the basic things that you need to survive. If you notice her taking your jacket or your comfy sweater and wears it all the time, that’s a strong sign that she’s into you. I don’t know, but for some reason some girls like wearing oversize clothes especially when it’s yours. Oh yeah, another strong indicator is that when you both are eating and a few seconds in after digging into the food, she asks you to try some of hers. So, she proceeds by scoping some of her own food with her utensil that has already been contaminated with her saliva and cooties and feeds you with it. If that’s the case, hands down she wants to be your girlfriend. You’re basically dating, but just without that title.

4. She tells you secrets

This is one way of bonding in a relationship. If you both have a good relationship already, then she’ll tell you secrets. She does this because she trusts you. Trust is also what you should look for in a romantic relationship. It’s also risky too because if she were to tell you some personal secrets, she’s basically exposing herself, thus making herself vulnerable. If that happens you should already get a sense that she’s really comfortable with sharing secrets with you. If she wasn’t serious, she wouldn’t be doing it. So, just remember that. Here’s some more signs that she likes you.

5. She talks about her family and friends with you

Do you notice when you both talk, you both are talking more about friends and family gossips nowadays? Or that she talks a lot about her family and she starts to put names and how they are related to her. If so, she’s low-key already trying to get you to familiarize her family tree and how her family and friends are like, sneaky huh. Also good signs she wants to be your girlfriend. But this just shows that family and friends are a huge part of her life and she wants to make sure you know it. So, when you’re ready to ask her out, you won’t be surprise of all the drama that she has to put up in her life.

6. She tells her family and friends about you

So, you know when you go hang out with your family or close friends and they get a whiff of some outsider information that you’ve been out with this particular friend for a long time and they all go crazy, asking about your love life. Yeah… that could be the situation that she’s going through. If that’s the case, she can just, one, say, “nah, I don’t know whatcha talking about. I’m not dating anyone.” But they obviously know she’s lying, or, two, she straight up tells them the facts. If she does and you accidentally found out from her family and friends, then you know for sure she won’t reject you if you ask her out.

7. She checks up on you all the time

You can say that she cares about you or overly obsess with you. But either way, both means that she likes you a lot. So, it’s a win-win either way, unless you really don’t like her. She just wants to see what you’re up to and making sure you’re in safe hands, as in you’re not talking to other girls. But don’t blame her for doing it she just worries about you because you still haven’t lock her down, yet. So that’s a good sign to look for.

8. She takes you to family events

If she takes you to not one, not two, not three, but four or more family events, it’s a strong sign that she wants to be your girlfriend. First event was probably a warm up for you, second event was probably trying to see if you connect or bond with the family, and third is probably fishing for family approval. And anything after that, you’re in the green. Family probably approves of you and there’s nothing stopping you, but yourself from asking her out. So, I’m rooting for you if you’re on the 7^th family outing. Not pressure, just don’t mess it up…please.

9. She wants to meet the people in your life

This is a strong sign that she’s being serious. If not, she wouldn’t care to meet your family or friends. Since she cares about it, she wants more exposure together in front of family and friends so people will know what’s going on. Again, she’s probably just wants to be exclusive with you. Nothing wrong with that, that is, if you want it to happen.

10. You are her go-to person

Whenever she has any problems or just wanting to vent, she’ll go to you first, either calling you or hanging out. Why you may ask? It’s probably because she wants to hear your voice and just spend some time with you. And if you realize that she’s spending awfully a lot of time with you more than any other person, that’s a strong sign that she wants to be with you. That one shouldn’t be hard to tell.

So, if you checked off most of these signs, you better go and ask her out before the ship sails and when it does, it’s too late. So, you better dock it and walk it and put a rock to lock it. Sorry for the bad rhymes again. And you fail, don’t worry, we’ll get em next time. So that’s 10 signs she wants to be your girlfriend.