How To Ask A Girl Out (10 Creative Ways)
So, you guys asked for it and now it’s here. For all those loyal customers I mean subscribers, you know by now that I indeed read all your comments and reply back. I know it’s hard when you’re catching feelings and not healing but that just means you need to step it up and take matters into your own hands. Because if not, I’m sure someone that you hate will probably come up and sweep that girl from you. If you don’t want that to happen, make sure to subscribe and smash the like button. Just so you get some good luck and good karma when you ask her out. Oh, by the way, I’m assuming you somewhat know the girl and they seem somewhat approachable and friendly, but not like a total stranger. Because stranger danger. And this depends if you’re asking her out on a date or if you want her to be your girlfriend both examples are there. So, with that being said, here’s 10 ways on how to ask a girl out.
1. The extra ticket invite
You could do this with any tickets like for concerts, game shows, or sport games. But if you want to be safe, just go to a movie theater and buy a gift card that covers two tickets. Then casually approach her and let her know that you got a gift card for so and so movie theater and let her know that you’re interested in her and that you want to invite her to go see a movie. Basically, it’s a date and you want to let her know so she doesn’t get the wrong impress that it’s just a friendly hangout. That’s how people get friendzone.
2. The role play
If you’re in an acting class this is perfect, but if not, it could still work. So, hear me out. Picture how you would like ask out your crush. Make it like a romantic love scene if you want. Be very descriptive and imagine how everything will go down. Then put everything down on a script. Once you have the script down, give it to her and just casually say, “Hey I need a girl to practice an act with. It’s for a project, can you help me out for a bit?” If she flat out rejects you, then you already know she’s probably not interested in you, but if she does help you out, even better. There’s a high chance she’s into you and you’re just minutes away from getting that, “yes.” Like for reals she’ll say yes because it’s on the script. Haha But then at the end you tell her that, “This is exactly how I pictured it on how I would ask my crush out.” Get it? haha This is straight up cringy and cheesy, but hey it’ll probably make her laugh and if you can get her to laugh, your chances of getting at her would be high. Sometimes you just gotta lose your pride in front of her and be a little cheesy if that’s what it takes to get a girl.
3. The heart shape pizza
Let me just say, pizza is for everyone. You can even make a vegan one if she’s vegan. Who doesn’t like pizza? Then you hand-deliver it to her and put a note inside the box that says: “I know this is cheesy, but would you like to go to prom with me?” I mean it doesn’t have to be prom, you can say anything you want. Oh, and for those who are vegan, you should probably remove that cheesy note and put something that’s more vegan friendly I should say.
4. The hangman game
If you know the game, that’s great! If not, here’s a quick explanation of it. So, you show her a set of blank spaces and those blank spaces will eventually make up a phrase or a sentence. You have her pick letters to fill in the blanks. And when she gets the right letter, you reveal it to her. But if she picks the wrong letter that’s not in a phrase or sentence, you slowly draw out a stickman that looks like he’s hanging. And the game is done when he is hung, and that’s why it’s call hangman. But obviously you’re not going to simply let the game be over, you keep the game going until she gets it right so you add in some eyes, nose, mouth, and other stuff which will prolong the game. And voila your message is then revealed. I know this one also sounds cheesy but hey this is easy.
5. The song or poem
This will cost you some of your time and some creative juice. You could write your own song or poem or just rip one off the Internet. But writing one out is more thoughtful. The reason why I mention these two options is because there are some people out there, who can’t sing, like me. So, if you can’t sing, do a poem. It works just the same and would even be memorable. But make sure to record, post it on Youtube, email me your link and I’ll expose you to the world. But it’s a good exposure because you actually took action and you’re not single anymore.
6. The messenger dog
Most girls do love a cute dog. If you have one that’s great, if not, borrow one from a friend or family. Take the dog out on a casual walk knowing that she will be there. When you see her, tie a note around the dog or if the dog is somewhat trained have the dog bring the note to her and make sure the note says something cute like this: “You see that guy right there waving at you? He may look like a dork, but he’s a cute dork. Very loyal and trustworthy like me. He spends way too much time on me and I think it’s about time that I should set him up with someone like you. If you approve, please take him off of my paws and go out and have dinner with him so I can have a peaceful Saturday night. Love, your pal.” Is that too cringy though? Okay maybe we can go back to the drawing board and work something out.
7. The flower approach
This one is a classic. Super formal and traditional. When you whip out that flower She already knows what’s going to happen. Yes, you’re basically going to ask her out. So, plan ahead on how things are going to go down because if not, you’re going to drown. Here let me give you a quick idea of how it could play out, but you have to keep your composure and be genuine. So, you approach her with the flowers and say something like this: “I’ve never done this before and I hope this means something to you. After hanging out together and talking with each other for this long, I could really see myself being with you because we have the same interest, personality, and we get along really well which is scary. I like you and I hope you feel the same way about me. I want to you to be my other half so would be my girlfriend?” So yeah, that’s really a rough idea, but you get the idea, right?
8. The low-barrier-to-entry technique
This is another easy one. The sequence is as follow: question, statement, question. Here let me give you examples: “Oh you can play tennis, too? Let’s play a match this Friday. Will you be free on Friday?” or “Have you tried this new ice cream place in town? A lot of people are raving about how good it is. Are you free this Friday night to go?” You see how simple that was. You try to set up a scenario where they are interested in something or something that they haven’t experience and then you ask a redundant question follow by a statement, and then end with an invitational question. Now it’s up to you if you want to turn it into a date or a hangout. It can go either way. So that’s another low-key way on how to ask a girl out.
9. The artsy gift
Depending on what you make, it could be seen as something sweet, cute, and thoughtful. A handmade jewelry, a cute note card, or a one of a kind t-shirt. Here let me give you an example. This is one that I did for a girl. It’s really cringy I know. But hey, I implemented the things that she says lot and even the emojis are her most frequently used ones. I hope this at least inspired you a little.
10. The mutual friends
I saved this one for last just in case you don’t feel comfortable with the rest of the other options and don’t want to experience rejection. Now I’m not saying you should have her friends or your friends to ask her out for you. What I’m saying here is that you should set up a group hangout. Note that this probably won’t be a date but at least you get to hang out with her. Then you casually waltz up to her and be like, “So Bethany, Ted, and me are going to game night, I was wondering if you want to join? There’s going to be free food.” I mean how can she say no to hanging out with her friends and free food? And there you have it. A mini victory for you without getting rejected.
Overall, I just want to say that if you’re going to do this, be confident in yourself. Dress to impress, and prepare for rejection. Don’t think this will work 100 percent of the time. And never set the bar too high like trying to take her out to this 5-star restaurant and blowing up your nonexistent bank account. It’s not worth it in the beginning. Trust me. Just remember that every rejection is one step closer to acceptance. So that’s how to ask a girl out.