15 Signs She Loves You But Is Scared
Like my others videos I’ve mention before, girls can be mysterious. Sometimes they just don’t like sharing their feelings or telling a guy that they love them because they are scare of the unknown. Girls don’t want to be attached and then get their heart broken. For some girls, using or saying the word “love” is hard. Which is totally understandable because “love” is a strong word to begin with. Love doesn’t just show up overnight, it takes time to develop and girls might need more than the necessary time to start saying the word “love.” With that being said, here are 15 signs she loves you but is scared to say it.
1. She responds quickly to your messages
If a girl loves you, she will keep on checking her phone to see if you have already texted her. If you have texted her and she replies quick, then it is obvious that you have a connection. She is probably looking forward to communicating with you. If you also feel the same way about her, then continue communicating with her. If you guys both click, you’ll definitely have a lot of interesting things to talk about.
Check out: How to know if a girl likes you over text (10 signs)
2. She usually says ‘’yes’’ when you offer to take her out
To her, it is more than an outing. She wants to spend quality time with you and preferably call it a “date,” instead. If she goes out with you and can easily forgets about her personal problems, then she loves you and she may be ready to be with you forever. She wants to give you an opportunity to continue your ‘’pursuit’’. This is one of the most common signs that she wants you.
3. Not wanting to let you go
Although she hasn’t express her feelings for you, yet, she still doesn’t want to lose you. You may find that she’s somewhat attached to you and hope you stay with her to spend the holidays or the weekends together. This is also another sign that she wants to spend more time with you. Just give her enough of your time. If you like her too, then move your relationship to the next level. That’s one of the major signs she loves you but is scared.
4. She tells you what she likes about you
It doesn’t matter what you guys do together because she will think it is wonderful simply because it comes from you. She will not mention that she is in love with you but she is likely to tell you what she likes about you. She will notice your nice clothes; your new hair style and she will definitely give you a positive comment on it. Some women have a great attention to details so you can be sure that she’ll give you a few comments or input about your style, choice of things you make every day, and even about your great personality. If she keeps reminding you what she likes about you, just know that she’s in love with you. Overall, saying what she likes about you is way easier than saying what she loves about you.
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5. She teases you
If she loves you, she will most likely make jokes and be playful with you. However, it’s not going to be in a mean way. She just feels comfortable with you and hope that you guys can vibe in the same frequency together. The reality is that she is happy being close to you and wants to have fun with you.
6. There’s a rumor that she loves you
If a girl loves you, she will definitely share the feelings with her close friends. If her close friends know you, they might end up giving you hints about her feelings. That means that she has been letting her friends know how she feels about you and she no longer wants to hide it. But she is just scared of your reactions and that’s why she doesn’t tell you.
7. She takes care of you
How many times when you go out with a messy hair or when you haven’t checked your shirt and she comes running to you to fix it or tells you what’s wrong with it? In real sense, a girl who secretly loves you will try to taking care of you just to make you look and feel good. She will also remind you to take lunch and get enough sleep at night. She will want to walk you home and ask you if you need any assistance. If this is the case, just know that she is in love with you but scared to tell you. Also, she’s definitely a keeper if she can take good care of you. I mean, I want someone like that too.
8. She laughs at your jokes
Your jokes don’t have to be funny if she loves you and gets your humor! She will laugh with you most of the time. Your friends don’t laugh every time you crack a joke but she is always there to lift and brighten the mood. This is another indication that she is secretly in love with you. Her laughs will be genuine because she is truly in love with you but afraid to say it.
9. She copies you
In reality, people tend to adopt manners of those who they are close to and those they like. You can tell if she is in love with you if she starts liking what you like, eating what you like and going to the places you like. In most cases, she may decide to go watch a game with you even if she didn’t like them before. That is a strong indicator that she wants to be in your life and spend more time with you.
10. She compliments you frequently
She compliments you and tell you how smart you are most of the time because she pays attention to you. This is another very obvious clue that she is in love with you. She probably loves you if she calls you handsome even when you know you look and feel terrible because in her eyes she actually sees you as a handsome guy. You might think she’s blinded by love, but it’s a good thing she’s blinded for you though. Haha. So, watch out for her compliments and reactions whenever she is close to you.
11. She is still talking to you
Although you have spent a lot of time hanging out together and constantly talking to each other, you guys seem to have a lot to talk about. When you guys talk, you guys can talk for hours non-stop. If that’s the case, she is definitely into you. If she wasn’t into you, she would have just stop talking to you and moved on. But the fact that she has not moved onto someone else is because she loves you. She’s investing her time into you, but at the same time too scared to tell you she loves you because she’s afraid of what you might think and possible rejection. Those are common signs she loves you but is scared.
12. She shares her love songs with you
There is no better way of showing love than dedicating love songs to someone you love. She truly feels your love through the music and the fact that she shares those romantic lyrics with you can be an indicator that she is in love with you. She wants to open her heart through music and share her taste with you. Listening to her music can reveal so much about her feelings for you. She may also end up asking if you like the music and what you think after listening to the lyrics. That’s one of the signs she loves you but is scared.
13. She flirts through texts, but is scare to express love
Everyone can be confident when communicating through text messages or online. If she sends you those flirty texts but never flirts with you when you are together, then this may be a positive sign for you. If her messages are full of heart emojis and incomplete sentences, it may be because she loves you but is scared of a heartbreak. Just assure her that you are into it and never intended to frustrate her. This way, she will gather enough confidence to share her feelings with you more openly.
Check out: How to tell if a girl is flirting with you
14. She avoids answering the main question
In real sense, if a girl doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you, she will simply say ‘’No’’. However, if she avoids answering the main question, then it is an indication that she loves you but scared of hurting herself if she says “yes” and you don’t reciprocate. The bottom line is that sometimes if you are too direct, it can backfire on you. So, try to test the water a little and see where she is at first and tell her how you feel, instead. If she has the confidence and courage, she will eventually tell you and let you know. But hey, girls are girls sometimes you can be a gentleman and tell her first that you love her.
15. She is indecisive
Some guys don’t like girls who are indecisive because that just tells them they don’t care about anything, but that’s not always true. If a girl is deeply in love with you, she will keep on changing her mind and saying things like “whatever you want” or “whatever you want to do.” Their answers are usually not black and white and it’s hard to decode. On another note, if she can’t decide and want you to pick, it actually doesn’t matter to her. Whatever you choose to eat or do, she’ll be happy because you both are doing it together and she genuinely doesn’t care because she’s in love with you. She’s just wants to accommodate your wants and wants to see you happy. As long as you are happy, she will be happy. So being an indecisive woman isn’t always a bad thing.
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Conclusion:
Overall, if you can sense some of these signs that she loves you, then you should be a gentleman and tell her that you love her. Finding someone like that is hard to come across especially if she’s investing a lot of time in you. Don’t lead the girl on if you don’t like her. At the same time, I’m not asking you to jump in to a conclusion and tell her immediately. I just want you to know that the girl you know right now can be the one and if you wait too long and do nothing, she can slip away. And if you are really into her, tell her those three words “I love you.” It’ll mean the world to her if you say it first. So there you have it 15 signs she loves you but is scared.
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