Do you have a special woman in your life? It could be your girlfriend, your best friend, your mom, your sister, or any other lady that you care about in one way or another. If so, you’ll need these 20 phrases and words of affirmation for her to boost her confidence and your connection in a whole new way. If you’re watching this for romantic reasons, check out a follow-up video called “How to Have a Perfect Relationship” too. Now, let’s get to reaffirming!
1. I appreciate when…
Finishing this sentence with your own words shows that you’re paying attention to her efforts and actions and that they matter to you. Use this for the little things as much as the big, like when she offers to pick you up, when she hugs you after a long day, or when she hangs out with you even if she’s tired.
2. I was impressed by…
This sentence starter acknowledges her accomplishments and makes her feel like her hard work is valued. Use it when she does a great job at work or school or when she handles a difficult situation with ease and maturity.
3. It means so much to me that…
Filling in this sentence shows how important she is to you and that you value her contributions to your relationship or friendship. Use it when she does something kind that you didn’t expect.
4. You accomplish everything you set your mind to.
This displays that you are confident in her abilities. She may not always trust that she can do what’s in front of her, but you can. Encourage her to keep pursuing her goals with this kind of affirmation, especially when she’s feeling unmotivated or stuck in a rut. Make sure you have examples to back it up, too!
5. I admire your strength of character.
This is important to affirm her values and the way she conducts herself. Use this when she shows patience, courage, or resilience, or is just trudging through a tough time. It will remind her of her core values and help bring them out in the way she behaves every day.
6. You are an incredibly kind and compassionate person.
An affirmation like this one not only validates her personality traits but also encourages her to continue to be a thoughtful and caring individual. If she shows you love, whether it’s as a friend or as a boo, reciprocate it and let her know how much you appreciate it. It will only bring you more love and kindness and fill her heart with the same!
7. You inspire me.
Use this expression to tell her that you look up to her. If she didn’t know it already, she’ll realize how she motivates you to become a better person. This is motivating in and of itself! Be sure you can also list how she inspires you, like to be more creative, outgoing, loving, kind, or hard-working.
8. I appreciate how hard working and determined you are.
This affirmation goes straight for this girl’s work ethic. If she’s a hard worker who always tries her best and impresses no matter the job at hand, this one is for her. You can also use it when a girl is hustling through a job that she doesn’t love to encourage her to keep on going or to make a change for the better because she knows her worth.
9. You’re beautiful inside and out.
Combine her beauty with her beautiful soul with this affirmation. This is a compliment to both physical appearance and personality, showing that you appreciate all aspects of who she is. You can genuinely use this during a time when she’s most natural, like in sweats and no makeup; it’s an even bigger plus.
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10. Your creativity and intelligence never cease to amaze me.
This not only boosts her self-esteem and confidence in her brain power but also motivates her to continue exploring her abilities. Perhaps she’ll get the confidence to take on a new, more difficult project, endeavor, or goal with you in her supportive corner.
11. I admire your ability to stay calm and composed in difficult situations.
Does this girl have a level-headedness that is unparalleled? Does she cope with tough situations ten times better than anyone you know? Maybe she’s the one who calms you down when things get tough. It’s time to say thanks and affirm her skills with this statement.
12. You deserve the world.
This short yet sweet affirmation says, “I believe you are deserving of the best life has to offer.” No matter what she’s been through or what’s in her way, you believe that her inner self is so great that she deserves every opportunity out there. Use this for those who can’t let go of past traumas or who think they don’t deserve to be happy.
13. You have a great sense of humor that always brings a smile to my face.
If a girl can always make you laugh and lighten the mood – even when you’re a sourpuss because the day has been awful – then she deserves some affirmation. Tell her how she always cracks you up and that she’s a light in any dark room.
14. I’m so grateful for the love and support you show me every day.
This affirmation should be said to more people every day, and it’s a sure shame that it isn’t said often enough. Expressing gratitude for a healthy relationship shows the other person that you truly value their presence in your life. It should be at the core of any relationship, friendship, mentorship, or love.
15. You’re a champion.
This will give any girl a boost when she feels she has nothing left in the gas tank. Make her feel like the queen she is so that she can take on anything that comes her way. Get on those boxing gloves girl, you’re more resilient than Rocky himself!
16. You have a beautiful soul that radiates positivity and warmth.
This affirmation is for the girls that make the sun shine on a rainy day. She is positive, uplifting, and smiling even when there’s seemingly nothing good happening. They say you can see a person’s soul through their eyes, and when you look into hers all you see is sunshine.
17. Your willingness to always lend a helping hand is truly admirable.
If she’s always helping those in need – whether that person is you or someone else – let her know that you’ve been watching. We need more good people like this in our world and many don’t get the recognition they deserve to help drive more positive and selfless behavior in an otherwise selfish world.
18. I am so lucky to have you in my life.
After sharing this affirmation, make sure you list at least three reasons why you feel this way. You could also swap out the word luck for blessed if you feel that it was fate as opposed to coincidence that brought you two together.
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19. I love the way you bring joy into my life.
This affirmation is all-encompassing of everything this girl brings to you in one world – joy. Does she make you a happier guy or girl? Then this affirmation is for her.
20. Your dedication and commitment are unparalleled.
She’s been there when no one else was or she stuck through hard situations when most would have quit. Outline her resilience and give her a metaphoric medal of honor.
If any one of these 20 affirmations sounds positive and uplifting to you, don’t forget to give this video a like and subscribe to give this channel its own affirmation! And be sure to use as many of these as you can with the women in your life that you adore. Of course, choose the ones that are most relevant to you to make sure the exchange is as genuine as possible. As a final affirmation, you are amazing!